“Gender implicates us with others, makes us vulnerable to their address, to the ways they do and do not call our names, the ways they do and do not hold us in mind, the ways they do and do not lust after us. In the face-to-face of the dyad, there is scant occasion for the analyst to refer to the patient in the third person. The pronouns exchanged between them are more commonly the direct address of I and you. The announcement by patient to analyst -"I want to be called they'" —thus does not necessarily express something straightforward, but perhaps indicates the hope to be held in mind under this new name beyond the beat of the 45-minute hour.” —On Taking Sides: Clinical Encounters with Non-binary Genders

试图用AI翻译来读一篇日语的论文，原作者引用了Richard von Kraft-Ebing（首次使用sadomasochism这一词的奥地利精神病学家），在中文翻译里他变成了“理查德-冯-卡夫 =虾。”（虾的日语是ebi）

看到一个trivia：sinners里面chow一家开了两个蔬果店，一个丈夫开一个妻子开，彼此就在街对面，而这还原了1930年代三角区的真实场景。奴隶制废除后，失去失去免费劳动力的农场主开始转而雇佣中国人：廉价、勤劳、在政治上没有声音。但严酷的工作环境和微薄的薪水让中国劳工转而开启了蔬果店生意，并且往往并排开店，一家开给白人一家开给黑人。这些华人蔬果店在当时支持了delta地区大部分的黑人社群。

以及这是我的共情（empathy）能力
做一个好的关怀者/助人者需要的并不是强大的共情能力，“心意”第一天的最后一个练习希望邀请大家发现的也是如果把“共情”作为关怀行动的前提是薄弱的也是不必要的。
但许多行业——从心理咨询到回响剧场——的主流叙事是由神经典型的视角构建的，但共情本身对于做好咨询和做好演员来说都是不必要的，并且在我的观察里往往会成为实践者的障碍。

This is the scariest handle I’ve seen….

Another wonderful thing about Thunderbolts* is that for a Marvel film its music is no longer mediocre (or plain bad), Son Lux definitely delivered!

最近听闻一些所谓“心理咨询师”售卖“次卡”、施行“预付制”的不专业不道德的傻X行为，建议停止

很高兴在这个春天为大家带来我的春季限定绳“春茶”。4.8mm的小川绳，为大家的地面游戏注入更多精微的触觉。
限量40根，希望大家喜欢～

Healing is a very White formation. Whiteness allows one to imagine a pre-traumatic state to return to.